hold back from or avoid doing

refrain

verb|/rɪˈfreɪn/

Stop oneself from doing something; abstain

Examples

In a meeting

Please refrain from sharing confidential information outside the team.

Over coffee

I'm trying to refrain from checking my phone during dinner.

Why this word

avoid

Refrain emphasizes deliberate self-restraint from an action, while avoid suggests staying away from something

stop

Refrain means choosing not to do something, while stop means ceasing an ongoing action

abstain

Refrain is general self-restraint from action, while abstain often relates to formal contexts like voting or substances

Usage tip

More formal than 'avoid.' Use in requests, policies, or when describing deliberate self-control.

Etymology

Latin 'refrenare' — to hold back, from re- (back) + frenum (bridle)

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