really frustrate or annoy

exasperate

verb|/ɪɡˈzæs.pə.reɪt/

To irritate someone intensely or frustrate them greatly

Examples

In a meeting

His refusal to follow the process exasperates the entire quality team.

Over coffee

It exasperates me when she's late for every single dinner.

Why this word

annoy

Exasperate implies intense frustration to the point of losing patience, while annoy is milder irritation

frustrate

Exasperate emphasizes wearing down patience through repeated provocation, while frustrate focuses on blocking goals

anger

Exasperate specifically means to irritate intensely over time, while anger is broader provocation to rage

Usage tip

Use when describing intense, often repeated frustration. Stronger than 'annoy'—implies patience is wearing thin.

Etymology

Latin 'exasperare' from 'ex-' (thoroughly) + 'asper' (rough, harsh)

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