put yourself in someone else's shoes

empathize

verb|/ˈɛm.pə.θaɪz/

To understand and share the feelings of another person

Examples

In a meeting

We need to empathize with our users to design a better onboarding experience.

Over coffee

I really empathize with what you're going through after losing your job.

Why this word

sympathize

Empathize involves understanding from within another's perspective; sympathize is feeling sorry for someone from outside

understand

Understand is intellectual comprehension; empathize involves emotional identification with another's feelings

relate

Relate is casual connection through shared experience; empathize is deeper emotional perspective-taking

Usage tip

Use when discussing emotional understanding in customer service, team dynamics, or design thinking. Stronger than 'sympathize' because it implies shared feeling, not just pity.

Etymology

Greek 'empatheia' (em- 'in' + pathos 'feeling')

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