begrudge
To envy or resent someone having something; to give reluctantly
Examples
In a meeting
“I don't begrudge her the promotion—she worked incredibly hard for it.”
Over coffee
“I begrudge paying so much for concert tickets, but I'm still going.”
Why this word
envy
Begrudge means to give or allow reluctantly with resentment, while envy is wanting what others have
resent
Begrudge specifically involves unwillingness to grant something, while resent is broader bitterness
deny
Begrudge implies reluctant giving with ill will, while deny is outright refusal without the emotional nuance
Usage tip
Use when describing reluctant acceptance or envious feelings. Often used in negative constructions ('don't begrudge') to show magnanimity.
Etymology
Middle English from 'be-' (thoroughly) + 'grudge' (to grumble)
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